In an article about Instagram Anxiety, the Hollywood Reporter says that the average teenager spends about 6 hours daily on their electronic devices and most of the time they are surfing on social media sites. This is more time than we spend on eating. Most people would not admit that they had spent this much time there, but somehow still feel a little guilty.
As Wikipedia
describes social media platforms, they are “interactive computer- mediated
technologies that facilitate the creation and sharing of information, ideas,
career interests and other forms of expression via virtual communities and
networks.” All these apps are consequently created for sharing your personal
life. What nobody realises, is that they are also designed to be addictive.
Lior Frenkel explains in his Ted Talk that there are workshops on how to get
people hooked to your app. They use negative emotions like boredom, loneliness or
dissatisfaction to make them addictive.
The
creators of Instagram, Kevin Systrom and Mike Krieger, did a great job and
attracted over 1 billion active users since June 2018. The app allows users to
upload photos and videos. They can be edited with filters and be shared
publicly or with preapproved followers. It is possible to “like”, share and
comment on pictures. All in all it’s another app to express yourself through
photos and gain approval from other people.
While
scrolling through your Instagram feed, what do you see? People always smiling?
Fitness models with the perfect body? Or your friends going on cool vacations
while you’re sitting on your couch with a bag of chips and your favorite TV series
on screen? Most people only share their personal highlight reels and with this
they create an illusion of a totally perfect life. The Harvard Psychology
Department found out that sharing information about ourselves activates the
part in our brains for pleasure. This feeling of pleasure is the same that is
caused by eating good food, earning money and even having sex. But how does
this affect other people?
A Study of the
Royal Society for Public Health showed that social media in general has a high
impact on people. They asked 1,500 14- to 24-year-olds about the effects five
networks have on their mental health. While Youtube was ranked as even having
positive effects on the most people, Instagram was ranked as the worst network.
The photosharing app causes bullying, body image anxiety, fear of missing out (FOMO)
and feelings of loneliness and depression.
But how do
we get in such bad conditions only by using an app?
Our brain
is constantly collecting data. Its intentions are to keep us safe, to search
for valuable resources around us and at least to figure out where we stand in
the social hierarchy. And this is the point where it gets interesting.
Imagine
searching your place in the social hierarchy before you started to use social
media. To identify where someone stands in the “pyramid” of society, our brain
concentrates on his physique (to analyse his strength), his friends (his
influence) and his belongings (stating his wealth). The people with the most
power and the most influence make around 5-10% of students at your school.
Another 5-10% make students who are under your state. They have close to no
friends and with this nearly no influence and impact on the social hierarchy.
The other 80% of students are just as average as you are.
Now
regarding the impact of social media on your life nowadays. All you see on
social media is absolute perfection. Perfect vacations, perfect bodies, people
running perfect businesses. This makes your brain believe that these people are
actually around you in your real life and then your brain starts competing with
those strong personalities. You start to think that they are way better than
you in every situation in life. From this you slip from being in the average
section to think that you are part of the section of “nobodies”. This causes an
increase of anxiety, insomnia, panic attacks, depression and addiction.
But all
this is not the whole truth. Instagram is a kind of perfect fantasy world. No one
has such a perfect life as they present it on their profiles. Everyone is only
posting the best images. Most of us are wasting hours by selecting the best out
of tons of photos that look completely similar and editing them with several filters
that create a more tanned skin or reduce the pimples on our nose.
This also
creates a false self-reflection for us. We change our own appearance to please
others. We are “like”-addicted. This addiction has similar symptoms as drug or
alcohol addiction and as it’s possible to overcome these, you can overcome the
social media addiction. A popular method is doing a “digital detox”. That means
you quit social media for a certain amount of time and try to catch back up in
the real world. You regain a certain awareness about your environment and your
connection to closely related people. Digital detox can help you embrace your
new life independent of your electronic devices and social media platforms.
If you
personally feel the same way and think that social media devours you, a good
way to help yourself is to gain some distance from the networks. There are also
organisations and campaigns like the website undigitize.me, “the official day and night of unplugging” or the
campaign “phone faced down!”. You should talk to your parents and friends so
they can help you get out of your Insta-anxiety. Always remember that you are
not alone.



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